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Goodbyes and Farewell
Sometimes I ask myself where is the good in goodbye? Why does it take a minute to say hello and forever to say goodbye? We usually hate goodbyes, and think what we need is more hellos, but I’ve had to say farewell more times than I would have liked, but everyone can say that. No matter how many times we do it, even when it’s for the greater good, it still stings. And though we’ll never forget what we’ve given up, we owe it to ourselves to keep moving forward. What we can’t do is live our lives always afraid of our next goodbye, because chances are they aren’t going to stop. The trick is to recognize when a goodbye can be a good thing, when it’s a chance to start again, however we should always remember that to never part without loving words to think of during your absence; It may be that you will not meet again in this life!
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Real Friends and Storm!
Friends are the people who stand beside you through the good times and the bad. They are the ones that you share your adventures with and, when life is good, those that you encircle with your successes. They cause you to laugh and to cry, frustrate you, and amaze you. They are the ones that provide you with all those crazy experiences and emotions that make your life worth living.
At times when it seems like everyone else around you has disappeared, true friends are those that stand beside you. They are the person that you call out to when there is just no one else who seems to understand. They are there to defend you and protect you. They are your port in a storm and when you haven’t the strength to stand anymore they pick you up, dust you off, and act like nothing out of the ordinary has happened, and support you till you are strong enough to once again walk alone. True friends are always there for you.
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True Friends!
True friends will stand by your through everything. They won’t care if you are right, wrong or indifferent. In their eyes, it doesn’t matter. All that matters is your feelings. As Leonardo DiCaprio’s famous line from Titanic states, “you jump, I jump.”
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Recognize Your True Friends!
Despite what one may think it is actually very easy to see which of your friends are true friends. This I admit, may not be obvious at first, but the longer you know someone the more you can see whether they are true friend potential. You can see fairly soon whether they are reliable or not.
A true friend is the one you can call at any time of day and they will be available to listen.
A true friend will hold your hand if another friend or relative is sick. They will be there just to be, understanding that you just need time to process what is happening. They won’t push you to talk, but they will be there if and when you decide you want to. If you call a friend at this very trying time, and they don’t come running, then realise that there are better friends out there.
Nobody should go through painful times alone, and friends are the most important people to get us through these.
Lives change, time passes, we evolve, and the thing to understand is basically this. A true friend will always be there no matter what happens within our lives. You can go several months without talking to a good friend and they would still be there at a moments notice if needed to listen, catch up on each others lives, or hold your hand in a time of need. A good and true friend calls just to chat or check on you when you are having a tough time, hey don’t leave you “hanging.”
Friendship isn’t one sided. It’s a relationship of give and take the same as any other. If you have a friend that doesn’t play by these rules, then maybe they aren’t such a true friend after all.
Friendship is not expecting anything in return!
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